What I have learnt about resiliency
Resiliency is not just a skill, it is also a tool.

How to become resilient and live through it?
Don’t get me wrong – I was scared. It’s as though I realized I was living in a house made of cards and if I made any wrong moves, it would all come tumbling down. The most frightening thing is the unknown, and so we can get paralyzed waiting for a sure thing, a perfect plan.

Tip:
Identify your core values and your why, have clarity, stay focused and pray
Here’s how to do it:
Pretend nothing happens
Don't pretend anymore
Face your pretending as if you are pretending
Pretending clearly doesn't work
Be cautious and learn